You are at a life-turning point where thinking more hasn’t helped — and you keep circling the same inner questions.
You are emotionally exhausted, not because you can’t cope — but because you've been thinking, holding, and managing everything on your own for too long.
You're overwhelmed by emotions you can't quite name or process.
You've tried figuring it out on your own. You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even tried therapy. But you're still stuck—still caught in the same loops, still unable to see the patterns that are running your life.
The harder you try to think your way out, the more tangled you become.
If this resonates—you're in the right place.
This is work that helps you see what you can't see on your own.
I work with people who feel everything deeply, who think too much, and who keep ending up in the same difficult places without understanding why.
Together, we will:
Figure out what you're doing that you can't see - The ways you react, the choices you make, the things you tell yourself that keep you stuck—but you don't realize you're doing them
Understand why you do what you do - Not just surface answers, but the real reasons behind your decisions and reactions
Find out what's really running the show - The fears you didn't know were there, the feelings you've been pushing down, the old stories you're still believing
Deal with the emotions you've been avoiding - So they stop secretly controlling what you choose and how you live
See yourself clearly - Without beating yourself up, but with real honesty about what needs to change
Stop the cycle - So you quit repeating the same painful situations and start making choices that actually work for you
This uses Life Coaching and CBT (a proven approach to changing how you think and feel) to help you get clear on who you are and what you need to do next.
You'll finally understand yourself - Why you react the way you do, why you keep making certain choices, and what's really been holding you back
You'll know what you actually want - Not what you think you should want, or what everyone expects from you, but what truly feels right for you
You'll feel lighter - The confusion and emotional weight you've been carrying will ease because you'll finally understand what it was all about
You'll trust yourself again - You'll make decisions without endlessly second-guessing, asking everyone for their opinion, or being paralyzed by fear
You'll have a clear direction - Not just ideas or inspiration, but actual steps you can take that make sense for your life
You'll catch yourself before you slip back - When old reactions start to show up, you'll recognize them early and choose something different
What this program, titled - Journey of Self is not about.
This is not for you if:
You want career advice (resume help, interview prep, LinkedIn optimisation)
You're in acute crisis (active suicidal thoughts, severe mental illness—please seek clinical care first)
You want someone to tell you what to do (I help you find YOUR answers, not give you mine)
You're not willing to do deep reflective work (journaling, homework, uncomfortable self-examination)
You're looking for a cheerleader (I'm compassionate, but I'll challenge you)
You're not willing to look at painful patterns (transformation is uncomfortable)
Because I've been you.
I was the sensitive, introspective person drowning in emotions at life's crossroads. I was caught in patterns I couldn't see. I had massive blind spots and low self-awareness—and I couldn't figure out why I kept ending up in the same painful places.
I did the deep work. I learned to see myself clearly. I broke the patterns.
And now I help others do the same.
Questions? Send in your queries to contact@guideadvice.org